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Sunday, December 06, 2009
These days have been really busy. Work, going out, work, going out and i hardly even have 6 hours of rest. Oh gosh.. All the sleep debts are starting to haunt me..
Desmond is flying off to Amsterdam on the 10th.
Well it's like 1am? So i guess that makes it more like the night of 9th December.
Hmm.. WHY not HONGKONG?
At least the air port there have stuffs i can get him to buy =x
Three months should be gone quite fast i guess?
There's Christmas, New Year and Chinese New Year..
So many events to keep us all occupied.
OH NO.. 2010 is the year where 1989s will be broke.
ALL THE 21st BIRTHDAYS clumped together!
Better start saving up.
=/
SOMETHING WORTH TO BE HAPPY ABOUT!
POP is coming soon for the army ppl! =D
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
I wanna watch this in 3D!!! (:
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
Do not date THIS guy
By Flora McCraith, MSN, Updated: 22/10/2009
As the sayings go, "the skies the limit" and "there are many fish in the sea".
But, there are just some 'fish' that are going to cause you a real tummy ache
if you eat them - so much more pain than pleasure.
Here are a list of those you should be looking out for and steering clear off.
there are just some 'fish' that are going to cause you a real tummy ache if you
eat them - so much more pain than pleasure.
Do you find yourself constantly being let down by the men you date and bouncing
between being single and in a relationship as often as Jessica Simpson? The problem
isn't you; it's the men you're dating.
The holes in your dating sieve are currently bigger than the one we have in the
ozone layer, and its allowing any man who shows you even the smallest morsel of
attention into your life. You need to tighten the reins on your life and raising
the dating bar. It's a huge experiment requiring lots of trial and error, but
there are certain men who don't even deserve an ounce of your attention. And,
once you know what to look for, it's not too hard to sift through the rest of
the dating pool to find Mr Right.
But, until Mr Right does come along, here's a list of guys you should definitely
banish from your list of potential options.
Mr Tin Heart
The emotionally unavailable man has been the pitfall of many single women. Yet,
he's the easiest of the species to spot. So why do we get ourselves into such a
mess with him when we usually know early on that it would sooner snow in Malaysia
before you can get him to commit?
“These women really believe that they can change a man's mind about being with them,
or they simply make themselves believe they can, because they feel like they have no
other choice,” explains Sally Reeves* a relationship counselor.
There's usually a reason why these men can't commit. Your job isn't to figure out why
that reason has come to be, but instead, if it's a reason that's actually good enough
for you. If it is, then may be you need to look at yourself and ask "why don't I find
somebody who is ready for commitment?" says Susan Jeffers, author of 'Opening Our
Hearts To Men.'
#1 Playa
He's the perfect lover, makes you feel like you're the queen of his world and that he's
perched you high above a pedestal away from any other woman in his sight. He's well-dressed,
charming, witty, funny, and his manners are impeccable. He's out to make an impact on the
women he makes, and he'll definitely make that impact on you...and every other woman that
tickles his fancy.
Every woman will come across at least one of this kind in her lifetime, and while the charm
and attention may be extremely flattering, don't be fooled. You know you'll be nursing a
broken heart when he gets bored.
Mr Mummy
In Western cultures, any 20something year old man still living under his parent's roof
would (almost literally) be laughed out of house and home. While the same concept cannot
be applied here in Asia, it's not hard to spot a mummy's boy.
The signs aren't even subtle. He's always going to choose is mum (or aunt or sister) over
you. And while there may be times he's hesitant about making that decision, make no mistake,
the end outcome will always be the same: Mum 1 - You 0.
What's worse, when things don't work out, he'll believe that the issues lay with you not
trying hard enough to get along with his family.
Tan Sri Lambat (a.k.a. Sir Late-A-Lot)
Let's be honest here: the concept of 'Malaysian timing' is just an all too common excuse
for us to be late. But the fact that we know there's going to be traffic, yet make no
allowances for it, just says that we're being disrespectful. Same goes for a guy. If he
knows he's made an appointment to meet you at a certain time, yet can't be bothered to
plan around that accordingly, he's pretty much saying, "I'm unreliable, disorganised and
I don't really respect your time."
“Every time you break a time promise there is a consequence and you are sending a subtle
message to the person you stood up that they are less important than you or whatever you
were doing” Karen Kawalec*, a behavioral specialist and counsellor from the UK. "Do this
enough, and you’ll strain the relationship you have with this person for the long term.
It also says that you aren’t responsible, reliable, or maybe even sincere and honest.”
Mr Office-Is-My-Home
We applaud men with ambition. We applaud their dreams and aspirations and seriously,
that go-getter attitude is sexy! But there's a time and place for everyone, and no job
needs to be worked at all day, every day.
On the plus side, the workaholic is always well-dressed with impeccable manners and an
admirable knowledge of many things. He knows how to make you feel like a real lady. On
the other hand, dinner dates (if they hadn't already been cancelled) will usually turn
into a solo affair, with you picking at the food while he screams down the phone about
some deal or the other.
However, we're not going to relegate all workaholics to the no-fly zone of dead beat men.
You'll have to exercise some discretion, and patience, to sort through the ones you can
deal with and the absolute no-hopers.
Mr Whiny
This guy's self-esteem has fallen so low, it's almost made friends with the Hobbits of
middle Earth. But, he doesn't think it's his fault; it's always someone else's.
Maira*, a psychologist of 10 years says, “as an adult, pity becomes a burden. It's almost
endearing for a child to be sucking its thumb and clutching a blanket. For an adult,
well... you're not going win a whole lot of admiration among your peers! Pity disconnects
you. It disconnects you from yourself, from other people, from your world, and from your
won control.”
His constant belief that he is the victim means he's always seeking attention and becomes
distressed when he feels he isn't getting what he needs. While some women's overpowering
maternal instinct draws them to men like this, eventually, they will get tiring.
Mr Quick Trick
Admittedly, everyone lies. But, this lying leech has an excuse for e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g.
At the start of you relationship, the fibs were subtle. You knew there was something not
quite right about his explanation but he backed it up with something solid, so you let
him get away with it. But, the more he gets away with, the bigger his lies get.
"It's like he couldn't help himself and was addicted to lying!" says Shauna* of her ex.
"I used to believe him at first because they were just little things, but eventually,
they became so frequent, and sometimes were even so ridiculous I actually felt embarrased
for him!"
The Ex Texter
There's nothing wrong with being friends and keeping in touch with your ex, but too much
contact can prove detrimental to future relationships.
“When you continue an emotional relationship with someone instead of letting go, you will
usually have subconscious feelings for them or realise that the feelings never went away,
which can be damaging to new or potential relationships,” Sally* says. “But, you get a rush
from doing it and from hearing back, and it's naughty, yet safe in its own right."
The Game Boy
Nothing wrong with a man and his game console...unless he chooses it over you.
“In the broad sense, it’s (consoles) a substitute for social interaction, or just another
outlet” explains Ken Lee*, who works in a computer games outlet. “Computer games represent
an individual challenge for men and can be a way of relaxing.”
In a way, gaming to men is what shopping is to women - therapy. But, that doesn't mean we
shop all the time. The absolute danger sign ladies, is when he calls in sick at work because
(a) he didn't sleep the night before battling zombies or (b) he needs the day to advance to
the next level. When that happens, either 'accidentally' trip and spill a mug of hot tea over
the console, or, if you fear that may endanger your life lest he rage at you, just leave his
keys by the door and leave. You'll be better of for doing it.
**Names have been changed to protect identity.
By Flora McCraith, MSN, Updated: 22/10/2009
As the sayings go, "the skies the limit" and "there are many fish in the sea".
But, there are just some 'fish' that are going to cause you a real tummy ache
if you eat them - so much more pain than pleasure.
Here are a list of those you should be looking out for and steering clear off.
there are just some 'fish' that are going to cause you a real tummy ache if you
eat them - so much more pain than pleasure.
Do you find yourself constantly being let down by the men you date and bouncing
between being single and in a relationship as often as Jessica Simpson? The problem
isn't you; it's the men you're dating.
The holes in your dating sieve are currently bigger than the one we have in the
ozone layer, and its allowing any man who shows you even the smallest morsel of
attention into your life. You need to tighten the reins on your life and raising
the dating bar. It's a huge experiment requiring lots of trial and error, but
there are certain men who don't even deserve an ounce of your attention. And,
once you know what to look for, it's not too hard to sift through the rest of
the dating pool to find Mr Right.
But, until Mr Right does come along, here's a list of guys you should definitely
banish from your list of potential options.
Mr Tin Heart
The emotionally unavailable man has been the pitfall of many single women. Yet,
he's the easiest of the species to spot. So why do we get ourselves into such a
mess with him when we usually know early on that it would sooner snow in Malaysia
before you can get him to commit?
“These women really believe that they can change a man's mind about being with them,
or they simply make themselves believe they can, because they feel like they have no
other choice,” explains Sally Reeves* a relationship counselor.
There's usually a reason why these men can't commit. Your job isn't to figure out why
that reason has come to be, but instead, if it's a reason that's actually good enough
for you. If it is, then may be you need to look at yourself and ask "why don't I find
somebody who is ready for commitment?" says Susan Jeffers, author of 'Opening Our
Hearts To Men.'
#1 Playa
He's the perfect lover, makes you feel like you're the queen of his world and that he's
perched you high above a pedestal away from any other woman in his sight. He's well-dressed,
charming, witty, funny, and his manners are impeccable. He's out to make an impact on the
women he makes, and he'll definitely make that impact on you...and every other woman that
tickles his fancy.
Every woman will come across at least one of this kind in her lifetime, and while the charm
and attention may be extremely flattering, don't be fooled. You know you'll be nursing a
broken heart when he gets bored.
Mr Mummy
In Western cultures, any 20something year old man still living under his parent's roof
would (almost literally) be laughed out of house and home. While the same concept cannot
be applied here in Asia, it's not hard to spot a mummy's boy.
The signs aren't even subtle. He's always going to choose is mum (or aunt or sister) over
you. And while there may be times he's hesitant about making that decision, make no mistake,
the end outcome will always be the same: Mum 1 - You 0.
What's worse, when things don't work out, he'll believe that the issues lay with you not
trying hard enough to get along with his family.
Tan Sri Lambat (a.k.a. Sir Late-A-Lot)
Let's be honest here: the concept of 'Malaysian timing' is just an all too common excuse
for us to be late. But the fact that we know there's going to be traffic, yet make no
allowances for it, just says that we're being disrespectful. Same goes for a guy. If he
knows he's made an appointment to meet you at a certain time, yet can't be bothered to
plan around that accordingly, he's pretty much saying, "I'm unreliable, disorganised and
I don't really respect your time."
“Every time you break a time promise there is a consequence and you are sending a subtle
message to the person you stood up that they are less important than you or whatever you
were doing” Karen Kawalec*, a behavioral specialist and counsellor from the UK. "Do this
enough, and you’ll strain the relationship you have with this person for the long term.
It also says that you aren’t responsible, reliable, or maybe even sincere and honest.”
Mr Office-Is-My-Home
We applaud men with ambition. We applaud their dreams and aspirations and seriously,
that go-getter attitude is sexy! But there's a time and place for everyone, and no job
needs to be worked at all day, every day.
On the plus side, the workaholic is always well-dressed with impeccable manners and an
admirable knowledge of many things. He knows how to make you feel like a real lady. On
the other hand, dinner dates (if they hadn't already been cancelled) will usually turn
into a solo affair, with you picking at the food while he screams down the phone about
some deal or the other.
However, we're not going to relegate all workaholics to the no-fly zone of dead beat men.
You'll have to exercise some discretion, and patience, to sort through the ones you can
deal with and the absolute no-hopers.
Mr Whiny
This guy's self-esteem has fallen so low, it's almost made friends with the Hobbits of
middle Earth. But, he doesn't think it's his fault; it's always someone else's.
Maira*, a psychologist of 10 years says, “as an adult, pity becomes a burden. It's almost
endearing for a child to be sucking its thumb and clutching a blanket. For an adult,
well... you're not going win a whole lot of admiration among your peers! Pity disconnects
you. It disconnects you from yourself, from other people, from your world, and from your
won control.”
His constant belief that he is the victim means he's always seeking attention and becomes
distressed when he feels he isn't getting what he needs. While some women's overpowering
maternal instinct draws them to men like this, eventually, they will get tiring.
Mr Quick Trick
Admittedly, everyone lies. But, this lying leech has an excuse for e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g.
At the start of you relationship, the fibs were subtle. You knew there was something not
quite right about his explanation but he backed it up with something solid, so you let
him get away with it. But, the more he gets away with, the bigger his lies get.
"It's like he couldn't help himself and was addicted to lying!" says Shauna* of her ex.
"I used to believe him at first because they were just little things, but eventually,
they became so frequent, and sometimes were even so ridiculous I actually felt embarrased
for him!"
The Ex Texter
There's nothing wrong with being friends and keeping in touch with your ex, but too much
contact can prove detrimental to future relationships.
“When you continue an emotional relationship with someone instead of letting go, you will
usually have subconscious feelings for them or realise that the feelings never went away,
which can be damaging to new or potential relationships,” Sally* says. “But, you get a rush
from doing it and from hearing back, and it's naughty, yet safe in its own right."
The Game Boy
Nothing wrong with a man and his game console...unless he chooses it over you.
“In the broad sense, it’s (consoles) a substitute for social interaction, or just another
outlet” explains Ken Lee*, who works in a computer games outlet. “Computer games represent
an individual challenge for men and can be a way of relaxing.”
In a way, gaming to men is what shopping is to women - therapy. But, that doesn't mean we
shop all the time. The absolute danger sign ladies, is when he calls in sick at work because
(a) he didn't sleep the night before battling zombies or (b) he needs the day to advance to
the next level. When that happens, either 'accidentally' trip and spill a mug of hot tea over
the console, or, if you fear that may endanger your life lest he rage at you, just leave his
keys by the door and leave. You'll be better of for doing it.
**Names have been changed to protect identity.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
I am loving one drama right now!
And that is ♥ Mei Chan no Shitsuji ♥
It's something like a Cinderella Story with a twist!
Mei-chan has been living a regular life with her parents selling udon.
However, both her parents have been involved in a tragedy - leaving Mei-chan all by herself.
During this crucial time, her Grand pa is set to train her to become a worthy heir to his empire.
The interesting part to this drama is the TRAINING GROUND!
She has to attend Saint Lucia Girls' Academy, where all the girls are trained to become ladies.
Not forgetting the MAIN POINT - everyone of them have drool worthy Butlers by their side!
I really don't understand why the rule of the school is not to fall in love with your Butler!!
Witness the changes in the people around Mei-chan as she touches hearts with her sincereity.
Of course, I can't reveal too much! (:
And that is ♥ Mei Chan no Shitsuji ♥
It's something like a Cinderella Story with a twist!
Mei-chan has been living a regular life with her parents selling udon.
However, both her parents have been involved in a tragedy - leaving Mei-chan all by herself.
During this crucial time, her Grand pa is set to train her to become a worthy heir to his empire.
The interesting part to this drama is the TRAINING GROUND!
She has to attend Saint Lucia Girls' Academy, where all the girls are trained to become ladies.
Not forgetting the MAIN POINT - everyone of them have drool worthy Butlers by their side!
I really don't understand why the rule of the school is not to fall in love with your Butler!!
Witness the changes in the people around Mei-chan as she touches hearts with her sincereity.
Of course, I can't reveal too much! (:
A Butler only performs with their Lady's trust..
Watch it! Watch it! Cause the storyline is really interesting!
It's a pretty new show cause it was aired in 2009!
:D
Cool yea?
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Ris Low with her boomz!
I know I do not speak perfect English.
Hmm, but i guess it's not to the extent of her RAD, BIGINI and PREENS.
Not to mention the word BOOMZ.
What i have to agree is the questions they posed to her on Razortv is really ridiculous!
Thank god they changed the Ms Singapore World.
Bad publicity has gotten Singaporeans to take note of this pageant.
I guess it's better that people are aware!
Another news is Sun Ho and her MV Fancy Free.
I think she's just controversial.
However, i do have to say that 4 costume changes and male dancers are the norm in MVs. I don't see how she's copying Gaga. To copy Gaga, one has to have like 7 or more costume changes. Lady Gaga is forever morphing, ever changing queen! Bow tie hair.. Sunglasses.. Platinum blone wigssss.. You can count them all if you want to!
One good news though!
Lee Hwa has gotten Ashley Isham to design jewellery!
:D
Cant wait to see it!
I know I do not speak perfect English.
Hmm, but i guess it's not to the extent of her RAD, BIGINI and PREENS.
Not to mention the word BOOMZ.
What i have to agree is the questions they posed to her on Razortv is really ridiculous!
Thank god they changed the Ms Singapore World.
Bad publicity has gotten Singaporeans to take note of this pageant.
I guess it's better that people are aware!
Another news is Sun Ho and her MV Fancy Free.
I think she's just controversial.
However, i do have to say that 4 costume changes and male dancers are the norm in MVs. I don't see how she's copying Gaga. To copy Gaga, one has to have like 7 or more costume changes. Lady Gaga is forever morphing, ever changing queen! Bow tie hair.. Sunglasses.. Platinum blone wigssss.. You can count them all if you want to!
One good news though!
Lee Hwa has gotten Ashley Isham to design jewellery!
:D
Cant wait to see it!
Sunday, October 04, 2009
Have spent quite a bit within a short span of time =/
Desmond's 21st Birthday Present!
Personally im very happy with this Messenger Bag cause it's casual and still suitable for work!
Some ppl stil gave me :( 'Very nice.. But i still prefer leather one'
And even a request as crazy as a MAC BOOK PRO *faints*
Got a chance to do stupid things at the tze char stall opposite TP while i met the band ppl after their practice!
Forever this few symbols when it comes to rice. hahaha
Also went to Cityhall area during the F1 week for the sexy engine sound! (:
Not to mention some chilling, bitching and catching up with fellow ex-band mates.
The treats there sure look lovely (:
And here's Isaac after his 2 weeks!
Wonder how he'll look like after completing NS in NDU!
Ugh! I wish my on / off headache would go away!
Desmond's 21st Birthday Present!
Personally im very happy with this Messenger Bag cause it's casual and still suitable for work!
Some ppl stil gave me :( 'Very nice.. But i still prefer leather one'
And even a request as crazy as a MAC BOOK PRO *faints*
Got a chance to do stupid things at the tze char stall opposite TP while i met the band ppl after their practice!
Forever this few symbols when it comes to rice. hahaha
Also went to Cityhall area during the F1 week for the sexy engine sound! (:
Not to mention some chilling, bitching and catching up with fellow ex-band mates.
The treats there sure look lovely (:
And here's Isaac after his 2 weeks!
Wonder how he'll look like after completing NS in NDU!
Ugh! I wish my on / off headache would go away!
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
There's a new place to sing!
Notice the difference?
Extra comfy sofa!
Floppy slippers and blanket to keep you warm!
There's even a theme for easch room.
I guess ours' is pretty flowery!
It's touch screen!!
Cool right!
two screens.
( i wld rather get a big projector :x)
me and eric!
There's even a place for bored people to surf net!!!
See? Now you dont have to stone while waiting for the mic to be in ur hand!
I guess the people they hire are pretty well groomed too.
Everyone on the hot seat surfs facebook!
Blanket is wonderful for ppl like me ((:
Group photo =)
All smiles
Notice the difference?
Extra comfy sofa!
Floppy slippers and blanket to keep you warm!
There's even a theme for easch room.
I guess ours' is pretty flowery!
It's touch screen!!
Cool right!
two screens.
( i wld rather get a big projector :x)
me and eric!
There's even a place for bored people to surf net!!!
See? Now you dont have to stone while waiting for the mic to be in ur hand!
I guess the people they hire are pretty well groomed too.
Everyone on the hot seat surfs facebook!
Blanket is wonderful for ppl like me ((:
Group photo =)
All smiles